We often talk about time management and productivity when it comes to executive function support, but what about emotional regulation? For neurodivergent adults, managing emotions isn’t just about staying calm—it’s also about navigating overwhelm, avoiding shutdown, identifying patterns, and staying grounded enough to do what matters most.
This is where an emotional regulation daily log comes in. It may seem simple at first glance—just a way to track how you’re feeling at one particular moment—but when used consistently and intentionally, these logs can help you make sense of your inner world, reduce reactivity, and build emotional resilience over time.
This executive function blog post highlights the challenges, shares tips, and offers neurodivergent emotional regulation tools (including a printable emotional regulation log).
Navigating emotional ups and downs is difficult—especially when you’re also managing other executive function challenges like task initiation, organization, or impulse control. For me, emotional dysregulation has been one of the biggest barriers to showing up the way I want to.
And let’s be honest: we live in a society that stigmatizes strong emotions, especially those labeled “negative.” Most of us were never taught how to feel our feelings—let alone how to process or respond to them in healthy, productive ways.
Many neurodivergent people experience emotions more intensely or in more layered ways than neurotypical individuals. For those with ADHD, autism, or sensory processing differences, emotions can come on fast, feel overwhelming, and sometimes seem disconnected from external events.
A daily emotional regulation log offers a structured, judgment-free way to:
Over time, these logs help create a kind of “emotional map” that makes big feelings feel more normalized and less in control.
Emotional regulation isn’t about ignoring or suppressing emotions. It’s about staying connected to them without being consumed by them.
Neurodivergent adults often face unique challenges like:
If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not broken—you’re operating with a brain that processes the world deeply and differently.
Here are a few coping strategies for executive dysfunction when targeting emotional regulation:
Pick one or two times a day to quickly rate or reflect on how you’re feeling. This could be:
Note any events, people, sensory inputs, or physical states that may have influenced your emotions. You don’t need to overanalyze—just notice. You can read more about ADHD trigger tracking here.
Over time, review past entries. Are there repeat situations that lead to emotional spikes? Are there things that consistently help you regulate or stay focused?
If you struggle to calm down alone, log what helps when someone supports you—like a hug, voice tone, quiet space, or shared laughter. These are valid and useful cues.
Use your log to write short affirmations or validations to yourself, especially on hard days:
The ThriveMind Planner includes daily emotional check-ins built right into the planning structure. Each page begins with space to reflect on your current emotional state before diving into tasks. This matters because your capacity to plan and execute depends on how regulated you feel.
Features include:
These tools aren’t just about reflection. They’re about building the foundation for productivity—because when your emotions are regulated, your executive function has room to operate.
Some of my most chaotic days used to start with a checklist and zero awareness of how I was feeling or why that mattered. I’d push myself through the motions, ignoring the fact that I was already overwhelmed or under-resourced. When I started checking in first—before asking anything of myself—my outlook changed permanently.
Just pausing to say “I’m running on fumes today” helped me make different choices and show greater respect not only for my goals, but for myself. It didn’t magically fix my day, but it helped me stop fighting against my limitations as a human being.
Emotional regulation isn’t about having no emotions—it’s about learning how to live with them in ways that support your goals, relationships, and sense of self.
Emotional regulation logs give you a place to practice that. A place to see yourself more clearly, respond more compassionately, and track the patterns that help or hinder your progress.
Want to try it? Download an example emotional check-in page (below), explore other Executive Function Toolkit resources, or check out the ThriveMind Planner Kickstarter.
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